marriage

I have been married my husband 10 years back in holly matrimony. Since we get married we lived very short time with true love. We did get a child, we do not have peace each other. in fact i since five years i know the causes of our problem and he also knows. But we could not give up to think about it, i am not satisfied with the relationship that i have with him. And i could not decide to break this marriage, i consulted my spiritual fathers but most of them feared to advise us to break. And my husband also do want to break though it is reasonable because of social pressure and psychology. I do not have peace, I worry day and night, and some time i hate even to go to church, i repeatedly prayed, had vowed but no response. i am in great trouble